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How Do I Know If I’m the Problem?

It’s a question that often runs through the minds of people caught in the cycle of repeated relationship issues: Am I the problem? If...

Why Can’t We Talk About Hard Things Without It Turning Into a Fight?

Conflict is inevitable, but avoidance makes everything worse . If you’ve ever tried to talk about something important, only to find it spiraling into a fight, you’re not alone. That familiar feeling of being misunderstood, or worse, attacked, can make it seem like having a simple conversation is impossible. But what’s really going on beneath the surface? Why does talking about hard things often feel like stepping into a battle? The answer lies in our nervous systems and the h

Is It Normal to Feel Lonely in a Long-Term Relationship?

It’s easy to assume that loneliness is a problem in relationships that are "failing"—but I’m here to tell you, it’s a natural part of the ebb and flow of connection, even in healthy long-term partnerships. We’ve all felt it at some point—the distance between you and your partner that’s not physical, but emotional. Maybe you're sharing a space, but not a connection. Maybe you’re not fighting, but you're not really feeling either. The loneliness feels like an invisible wall be

How Do I Know If I’m Settling or Just Being Unrealistic?

We’ve all been there—staring at our relationship, wondering if we’re settling for less than we deserve or if our expectations are just too high. The confusion between these two can be paralyzing. On one hand, we’re told to never settle —to hold out for the partner who meets our every need. On the other, we’re bombarded with the idea that we need to be realistic , to compromise and accept imperfections. So, how do we know the difference between settling and being unrealistic?

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