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How Do I Know If I’m the Problem?

It’s a question that often runs through the minds of people caught in the cycle of repeated relationship issues: Am I the problem? If...

Why Can’t We Talk About Hard Things Without It Turning Into a Fight?

Conflict is inevitable, but avoidance makes everything worse . If you’ve ever tried to talk about something important, only to find it spiraling into a fight, you’re not alone. That familiar feeling of being misunderstood, or worse, attacked, can make it seem like having a simple conversation is impossible. But what’s really going on beneath the surface? Why does talking about hard things often feel like stepping into a battle? The answer lies in our nervous systems and the h

Is It Normal to Feel Lonely in a Long-Term Relationship?

It’s easy to assume that loneliness is a problem in relationships that are "failing"—but I’m here to tell you, it’s a natural part of the ebb and flow of connection, even in healthy long-term partnerships. We’ve all felt it at some point—the distance between you and your partner that’s not physical, but emotional. Maybe you're sharing a space, but not a connection. Maybe you’re not fighting, but you're not really feeling either. The loneliness feels like an invisible wall be

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